tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5819133491755111466.post1556566661503975825..comments2022-03-24T08:06:32.682-04:00Comments on Turning the Magic Around: Cursing the CriticOcean Delanohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09015988243103173794noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5819133491755111466.post-36151081973250540702013-08-17T11:48:11.327-04:002013-08-17T11:48:11.327-04:00is there any way to get the opposers to be re-inte...is there any way to get the opposers to be re-interpet what they are saying, to reframe their message?<br /><br />I looked up emotional transmution and reframing was a main technique.<br /><br />Have you seen the comercial where the just married couple got in and the lady says "this is the first day of the rest of our lives?" with a smile?<br /><br />Then cars doesnt start and then the lady says the same thing with a more negative tone. That would be considered reframing, right?<br /><br />Instead of cursing is there a magical way of doing this? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5819133491755111466.post-34969514139787169852013-08-16T12:05:17.607-04:002013-08-16T12:05:17.607-04:00I definitely get what you're saying. I think t...I definitely get what you're saying. I think the first thing to start working on is a regular practice of meditation. I know it's not the popular thing, but even scientific studies have shown its effects. In my own experience, meditation can help one to become more self-aware, and that awareness can lead one to knowing their own mind better.<br /><br />Also, what you described is definitely issues of low self-esteem and low self-worth. And I'm not saying to never curse your Inner Critic. But before you do, come to be aware of it, get some experience with meditation under your belt (so you can find the Critic and face it). Also, keep in mind that you don't need magic to do these things, per se, although it does help. If nothing else, check out the self-esteem book I mentioned in my latest post, the one by McKay.Ocean Delanohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09015988243103173794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5819133491755111466.post-35122628290561161652013-08-16T11:45:30.891-04:002013-08-16T11:45:30.891-04:00Well, the reason this is tempting is because not a...Well, the reason this is tempting is because not a lot of us have faith in positive things. Some have difficulty believing they can make things go right, but have absolute faith they will go wrong and was wondering how one can turn this tendency into something positive?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5819133491755111466.post-15513549456241621732013-08-16T11:18:45.918-04:002013-08-16T11:18:45.918-04:00I just made another post in follow-up to this. Rea...I just made another post in follow-up to this. Read it first before deciding to do something like what I described.Ocean Delanohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09015988243103173794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5819133491755111466.post-70789544809889748422013-08-16T10:38:34.319-04:002013-08-16T10:38:34.319-04:00holy s***! just what I needed. holy s***! just what I needed. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5819133491755111466.post-21813440299017225732013-08-15T19:12:01.084-04:002013-08-15T19:12:01.084-04:00Very interesting stuff. Very interesting stuff. my-path-noteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04618893803664390202noreply@blogger.com